Most of you will probably give me scornful looks for what you are about to read cause again most of you will pretend like this has or never even happens in your virtual world. And whilst your reaction might be justified (for some odd reason unknown to me) please do this with tact cause this is my testimony and I don't usually give a lot of these!
So where do I begin?...well let's just say so far none of my relations, both plutonic and otherwise, with the opposite sex (I am female by the way) have worked out. The worst being the intimate ones cause somewhere in ancient history probably exists a stone with a damning curse in a bold NOT GONNA FLY engraving on it. And God knows sengigrand ngalokho. And please don't feel bad cause hey as far as I am concerned I can't help it if fools choose to live in ignorance even when depth stares them blankly in the face! And as for my friend-friend males? Well the painful and usually absurd truth is they usually leave me for some thang they met usually after me whose benefits obviously just inherently carry more consistent weight than the one I bring! I'll say power to the you know what right there.
So just when I thought I couldn't win either way with my shameless male peers, and I still do love men, what do you know I "meet" someone with depth on all levels....ONLINE. There I said it! I am in a cyber friendship or whatever. Ok let's clarify two very essential things here: the gender is MALE and though we've met before in person it only lasted three seconds and since one minute encounters are already bad enough, three second ones DON'T count at all! And I must say I find him refreshing, intelligent, easy to talk to, funny and even emotionally and spiritually aware which is a rare commonality with men. And no he is not gay cause sometimes he's still brutal and pushes me to my limits!
Will it last? Who knows? Maybe when we meet again in person the mystery will evaporate leaving us with the disappointing but usually factual deduction that virtual reality is much more glorious than actual reality. But until then, I am going to continue soaking myself in the glory of this friendship. In the virtual world people seldom present their true form but all that matters is for now I can let loose and talk, laugh, share and be educated.
Would love to suggest this friendship to the rest of you but I think I will keep this one all to myself - for now anyway ;)
Moral of the story: not everything is cast and stone. The universe doesn't operate in one dimension. The best things in life are free and surround us everyday. And more importantly not all men are incapable of friendship (I think)!
KaMwelase.
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